This have been a good year, everything comes just at the place and meeting people at the right time.
My first move was to learn Neuro Linguistic Programing (NLP) which i wasn’t sure where it leads me. So now, graduated as a NS-NLP Practitioner, what should i do next? Should i just stop here? I love talking to people, sharing and helps them where i can, i am blessed that i can easily relate to their problems or emotions. Having NLP is like an extra skills that enable me to read their emotions and help them in their issues. Who should i help? I remember i was chatting with my long lost cousin and she have her own tution center for secondary school, i told her about what i have learned. She was so interested and asked me to come and willing to give her students as my ‘quinea pig‘.
I did ‘one to one’ with them, there were not willing to open up at first but after naturally let their emotions out after they feel relaxed and confident talking to me. One or two girls did not ready to share, i know they are still hiding something.. well just give them time.. I am sure they will opened up when they really are ready.
But having have time talking to these teenage girls reminds me of myself, i then have ideas on what or where i am heading to in this. My passion is to help others, so i decided i start helping teenagers. Teenagers trust strangers more than their own parents, they willing to open up to strangers rather then their own relatives. I have been through that stages and now it is time for me to assist them in whatever areas they need to know. Doing NLP to teenagers are an interesting experience because they accepted the idea very fast and their imagination are strong and very creative.
I have few issues that i heard from five girls , just to summarize their issues : facing problem focusing in study because she keep thinking about her boyfriend all the time (even her boyfriend in the same class), having problems with their mothers, problems with friends, identity and rejection.
Teenagers are trying to create their own personality, this is the stages that they have to be careful, they will want to try so many things.. which may harm them. Teenage girls are easily attracted to diet pills without checking the lipofuze side effects, they willing to try anything to look sexy and beautiful than others, well they are always competition.
They are two types of teenagers, the ‘who know everything’ well just assist and guide them, and the other one is ‘don’t know everything’ ..so we need to teach and help them.
The best part is they look forward to seeing me again, the passion of helping teenagers drives me to learn more and their happy smile is my rewards and their words of appreciations means so much to me.