Holiday During School Holiday

School holiday.. was the awaited moment especially by our kids. Its not only because they don’t need to go to school but because of the trip we promised. We had our holiday during the recent school holidays, its not only just a holiday but also visiting my husband’s family in KL.

The best thing about our holiday is that we celebrated my father-in-law’s birthday and had the opportunity to meet up with other relatives.

It was a fun and exciting, we did a lot of traveling by the LRT and did a lot of walking, crossing the road is the main problem for me.. wish there were a roadside assistance. Not much shopping this though but it is interesting.. and most of all the kids had great fun.

A holiday is not how much we spend on things but how we spend our time with our family. Some parents wants to make their children happy with buying expensive toys but the fact is that children are happy if we spend time with them or just have ice creams with them.

“I tried to show my children the way to happiness, but their way was better.”-Wes Fessler

 

Obedient Wife Club?

“Obedient wife means they are trying to entertain their husbands, not only taking care of their food and clothes,” Maznah said. “They have to obey their husbands. That’s the way Islam also asks.”

Malaysia is a Muslim-majority country, with some 60 percent of the population practicing the religion, alongside large ethnic Chinese and Indian communities who are mostly Buddhist, Hindu and Christian.

According to local media, the country’s divorce rate doubled from 2002 to 2009, with rates higher among Muslims than non-Muslims.

Maznah said it was also the men’s responsibility to teach their wives to be obedient.

“Some wives, they just want to get married for leisure but they don’t know the responsibility,” she said.

“To entertain their husbands is compulsory. If she doesn’t do this, the husband will look for another woman… and the house will break down.”

Saturday’s launch near the capital Kuala Lumpur will include speeches and a show to demonstrate to women how to be good wives, Maznah said, adding that a similar club was set up in Jordan last month.

Quote from Yahoo News on the launching of The Obidient Wife Club in early June.  I try not to be harsh but honestly i think this is stupid.  It is an insult to women and all religion and belief.

Do you think being Obedient help you keep your happiness..but it sound like a slave to me…  you might keep your husband forever.. but will you be happy?  How about your feeling.. aren’t you human too? don’t you feel women.. wives.. need to be listened..respected.. appreciated?  Do you think entertainment is enough for men? they also want to be heard and respect.  I believe.. ‘communication is the key’.  For sure all the needs are important.. and its a bonus if your wife is a good chef, great housekeeping, caring nurse and sexy… wow..congratulation!.. what a package.  But I bet even if your wife use the best progesterone cream … but you don’t have good communication.. a man will still search somewhere for another obedient housewife.


Lust is easy.  Love is hard.  Like is most important.  ~Carl Reiner


‘U Can’t Touch This’

I have been telling my daughter not to touch my stuff. she loves playing with earrings and other stuff.. so  i keep on saying  “can’t touch this?” after repeating it a few times.. i remember the song ‘U can’t touch this‘ by MC Hammer.  I wonder what happened to him.. the last time i read somewhere that he was a bankruptcy.

Watching Oprah today gave me the answer.. MC hammer was on Oprah.. and its just wonderful to hear his story.  Imagine he was once a superstar.. an entertainer is doing tech jobs.

Forbes Magazine estimated Hammer’s net worth at more than $33 million in 1991. But, just five years later, Hammer—born Stanley Burrell—was reportedly in debt to the tune of $13 million.

He never regretted on what happened.. and accept everything and he said.. he is in a good place now.   How interesting.. he is very positive.. he have the attitude of gratitude in him.

I love Oprah for having him on the show.. and showing us another inspiring story.

All men make mistakes, but only wise men learn from their mistakes – Winston Churchill

Mr. Terminator

pic from wikipedia.

Arnold Alois Schwarzenegger an Austrian-American former professional bodybuilder, model, actor, director, celebrity, businessman and politician who served as the 38th Governor of California (2003–2011).

 

Schwarzenegger began to weight train at the young age of 15 years old. He was awarded the title of Mr. Universe at age 20 and went on to win the Mr. Olympia contest seven times.  Schwarzenegger had been married to Maria Shriver for over 25 years and the couple had four children together.

Interesting indeed that after busy with politic now he wants to go back to acting… well he might need best muscle building supplement to have a masculine body like before.. or else he can just act as a father figure that doesn’t need a masculine body.

He have the right to go back to acting..maybe that’s where his heart and passion is.  All the best to you Terminator.. may your choice is the best but family is the best amongst the best.

 

 

The Mind, Body and Soul

Don’t we all love having a fit and sexy body?  We all want to be healthy and look great.. don’t we?  We say it over and over again.. what’s your action?  Say..say..say but no action?  You are not going to achieve anything by saying but no doing.

Life is all about balance : Mind : Body : Soul .  We need to feed our Mind, Body and Soul with all necessary… these are few examples :

Mind : feed your mind..with knowledge, learn to think positive, read books..that’s how we exercise our brain.

Body : exercise.. drink plenty of water.. you might need to take post-workout supplements to get you started, just make your body move.. you can dance if you like.. sweat..release the toxin

Soul : how on earth do we feed our soul? practice ‘attitude of gratitude’..learn to be grateful to God, People around you and Yourself!

Find time to meditate.. to pause from worries.. to get in touch with your inner self.. let your Mind, Body and Soul speaks.. and interact.. be in silent.. if you let yourself be with your inner feeling for 5 or 10 minute everyday.. you will learn to understand yourself even better.

If your mind is positive and healthy, your body will get the signal.. and when your body know that your soul is happy.. what do you get? A positive person with great attitude.

Good luck and all the best!

Beautiza

Start to Reduce..not Stop!

I was searching in the net on how to have beautiful skin., I then come across this wonderful website about acne ..the address is http://www.accutanereviews.net. It surprise me when it mentioned on how giving up caffeine might reduce acne… surprise, surprise.  How am i able to do that?  I am so addicted to caffeine .. i need to have a cup of coffee every morning that is my jump start.. and the aroma is my motivation scent.

I have tried to stop having caffeine but maybe i tried to much.. i shouldn’t try to stop.. i might need to learn to reduce first…then stop.  Reducing caffeine intake and taking lots of water, also taking more fruits and vegetables will be my next goal.  I will start doing my work on how and when to start..and i will set on when to achieve this goal.

I wonder if i stop taking caffeine.. what would i replace it with?  Well for the sake of my skin, health.. i will do what it takes to take control of my intake.

Wish me luck..

Beautiza

 

 

Enjoy Today, Saved for Tomorrow!

I am still keeping my goal for this year.. that is ..’saving’.  It was hard to do at first but as i do it monthly, i naturally feel it easier to maintain and the more money i have..the more money i put into saving, especially for my children.  I just can’t wait for July.. not because it’s my birthday..but the last payment for my car loan.. yahoo!

I am now looking at  www.wholesaleinsurance.net for the quotes and rates, i will need to study and compare which is better and what benefit do this insurance can offer me and my family.

Once i have insurance, i will get into investment and the list for saving will go on.  Of course i will also think about today, not only tomorrow.. i need to enjoy my money today..who know what will happened tomorrow.

Enjoy today but save for tomorrow!

Shopping Spree

We will be going back to KL for school holiday, everybody is excited.. meeting the other side of the family.  I will find time to go shopping with my best friend.. just the two of us.  My favorite shopping spot is in Jaya Jusco… just 10 minute away from our house… i just love the Scarlet line.. sure will hear lots of the barcode scanner sound …at the cashier..tuuut..tuuut.!

Shopping with family especially with children around is difficult and distracting..  My time to go shopping with my best friend will be a whole day.. that’s for sure.  But i will be very selective this time.. i don’t want to overspend.

Whatever it is.. just wait and see what they offer.. i love shopping while everything on promotion.. with great discount!..  I will not be using my credit card..will be using my debit card.. more better that way.. Love to share with you this cartoon.

I would love to have a Fairy  Godmother let me use a credit card.. even if its expire at midnight.. i will be home before the midnight.. i promise you Fairy Godmother!..

A Child’s Prayer

    Do you know that nowadays..with our modern technology, we can ensure who fathered the unborn child.   A pregnant woman can do the paternity testing while pregnant.  I don’t know about you.. but if your husband ask you to this paternity test, he must have doubt.. right?  Don’t we trust our partner/spouse anymore?.. but maybe its precaution especially for unmarried couple to go through.  Well.. somebody got to prove something especially when its have to do with responsibility.

    Whatever it is ..once a child is born.. love and care is all they wanted…if you could hear their prayer!

    O Almighty God,
    who hast given unto me my father and mother,
    and made them to be an image of Thine authority,
    and love, and tender watchfulness;
    and hast commanded me to love, and honour,
    and obey them in all things:
    give me grace cheerfully and with my whole heart
    to keep this Thy law.
    Help me to love them fervently,
    to honour them truly,
    to yield a ready obedience to their commands,
    to comply with their wishes,
    to study their happiness in everything,
    and to bear their rebukes with patience and humility.
    Deliver me O God, from pride,
    rebellion and wilfulness,
    from passion and stubbornness,
    from sloth and carelessness.
    Make me diligent in all my duties and studies,
    and patient in all my trials;
    that so living, I may deserve to be Thy child,
    who art our Father in Heaven.

    Amen.

    The Attitude of Gratitude

     

    Why am i not pretty like her?  Why am i not smart enough? Why God give me this problem?.. I wish i had a bigger car, i could have married a millionaire..  You never satisfied in anything you do or have.

    Everybody wants to be prettier, smarter, richer or the better from somebody else… Why are we comparing ourselves to others? Why are we questioning God?

    Imagine yourself waking up in the morning, seeing nothing, smell nothing, no voice come out from your mouth.. or even worse.. you don’t feel anything .. you are dead!

    What were you thinking?.. no pulse to live ..no voice to say.. no eyes to see..

    Now.. that you have imagined the situation.. did you realized how perfect you are? how glad you are to have the opportunity to live? Be able to breath.. to smell and drink the coffee…able to walk…run…

    Learn to be grateful with what we have… count the blessings.  You are not as beautiful as Jenifer Lopez but you are amazing just the way you are.  You are not as brilliant as Einstein but you still have your brain to think.  You are not as rich as Oprah (she was struggling to be on top) but at least you have money in your   bsn online .. if not much at least you got few ringgit to save.. which you will make it double through saving.

    If you start counting your blessing as small as be grateful for being able to smell the coffee.. being grateful for having a house..not big but it is your home, being grateful that your wife cook for you even sometimes its not tasty, be grateful that your husband help you sweep the floor even its not as clean as you expected.  Be grateful!

    Start counting your blessing and learn to be grateful.

    The more grateful you are, the more blessings you will receive.

     

    Yours truly,

    Beautizy

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