July 24th, 2011

Your Master Degree or Master your Life

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Looking around me.. i saw people going in and out the office…  sending letters, attending meetings, sending foods.. yup there are people with differences, some are called Messengers, Officers, Caterers, Managers, Secretaries or even Drivers..  but i don’t see the differences because these people are equally HUMAN.. not more not less.  To me, everybody deserves a RESPECT…everybody have their own VALUE.

Its just sad if someone attacked you ..not in front of you.. sadly.. but behind you.. such an act of a coward.  Imagine how a person want to be respected by the education level this person had.. and if someone had the same level..this person will asked from where.. so unbelievably arrogant.

It is a terrible feeling … being looked down.. emotionally disturb.. your mind full of questions of ‘WHY, WHAT  and HOW?’

 


I slowly analyze my thoughts and emotions..and beginning to relax in my state of mind..

As i meditate..my mind beginning to visualize of ..what should i do next? Should i fight.. imagining myself yelling at that person, while the person holding a swisher sweet cigars on the other hand.. we might scream and yell at each other..or even slap at each other.Its a good feeling if i could scream at this person because a line of people waiting to do that.

But i wont do that.. because i determine not to have hatred in my body system… I let this person OUT from my mind for good.. not even the VISUAL or AUDIO on this person.. i have DELETED.. i am FREE!  My mind are in PEACE with LOVE from others who cares.

But that doesn’t mean i LOSE!  I have my own strategy in winning this game.. because it is not where or what MASTER DEGREE you hold but in what degree you MASTER your LIFE.

You SCREAM at me, I will SMILE back at you..   You hold on your EDUCATION and QUALIFICATION .. i just hold my EMOTION.. which you always fail in.

People will be remembered by the VALUE we give others not by what Qualification we had.

Remember to Respect everybody ..because we are equally human.

God Bless!

Beautiza

 

July 16th, 2011

Love And Give Them A Happy Ending

Posted under celebration, Family, motivation, Reflection of life, Relationship, usinku | No Comment

A few weeks back i heard a mother in her 60s called a radio station to express her feelings about her four children.  She said she had given them the best education and now there are all married and very successful in life.  What bothering her?  She said they seldom visit her.. and unbelievable she said she wont call them to ask them to come instead she want them to come willingly.  I am sure her successful children gives her cash or material.. so what else she wants?  Listening to her voice.. i imagine if i were her in that situation.. i realize what she needed is her children’s attention.. or just showing a little appreciation by visiting her, bring her to dinner and organize a weekly or monthly gathering amongst family members.

I am sure this lady pray everyday for her children to willingly come to visit her.. not only her.. i am sure her voice represents other aging mothers or parents whom stayed far from their children.

It have been a ‘wake up call’ for me.. and i believe same goes to others who care.  Imagine the day you hold you child on your chest… that is a very special moment.. i am sure you can still see how your baby look like, the voice..the smile.. you can still smell your baby right now .. as if it was yesterday.


We don’t know what the future holds for us.  Will our children take care of us? will we die early? are we the one whose going to take care of their children?  We can’t expect much can’t we..the future is too far to be concerned about.

Do you still have your parents?  Do you and your family often visit them and show your appreciation? I am sure we all busy with our own family.. but a life balance is important..and our parents are our responsibility as well.

If you had some sort of disagreement with your parents before.. it is time to forgive and let go.  We are not perfect..aren’t we?  Love them more today.. your child will love you more tomorrow.

 

Have some time to go through the family album.. you will see the picture comes to life.. it is more fun looking at the album with the whole family rather than using trail cameras.

 

Have a happy life.. and let them enjoy their achievement for having not only successful children but caring and loving children.. that is a greatest gift and a greater achievement for them.

 

 

May they enjoy their life before they had a happy ending.

 

 

 

 

June 26th, 2011

I Need Uniform

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What will i wear tomorrow?.. is the green blouse match the skirt or should i wear baju kurung?  This is one of few questions i have in my mind on what to wear to office.  I usually prepared and iron my clothes on Sunday on what i want to wear for the five working days but sometimes i will wear anything that comes into my mind and this usually the baju kurung..which i find easier.

Sometimes i just wish we can wear uniform.. like the stewardess or the nurses uniform ..not much to think about.  Nowadays i love buying dress.. i just wear coat or blazer to match with my dresses.  I also love mix and match.. others will see me wearing so many dresses.. they might thought i have lots of clothes but actually i don’t.. mix and match is my answer but make sure to buy dress or blouse that can match your skirt..and wear accessory ..not only you save money but you will look wonderful.

June 26th, 2011

The Simplest Is The Best

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I am surprise to receive so many wedding invitation for my boss and also for me.  What surprise me is that i usually receive wedding invitation during the school holidays.. but these days.. couple don’t really pick school holiday for their special day..maybe they don’t want their wedding day to be clashed with other wedding.. yup.. sure hard for people to choose which wedding they want to attend especially if the wedding they wanted to attend is at two different location.. north and south. They might end up not going anywhere.

Having wedding all year through is good enough especially the printing business.. they will not only busy doing postcard printing d but also wedding cards.  I love wedding cards.. whenever i received invitation in the office.. i will look at the wedding cards.. different design and sizes.. it is just meaningful.

But looking at different design of wedding cards.. and observing and comparing the invitation cards.. the best is the one with the simplest design.

June 26th, 2011

Your Job is Your Business

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How good if we can receive cash advances in any job before we even done doing it, especially in business.  I am sure we usually take deposit once we agree on doing any business..usually 10% from the whole amount..but depending on what business we are dealing with.  If you are a tailor, you don’t really need big amount of deposit but if you are a dealing with an event.. you might consider asking for more deposit…or else you need to dig your own pocket money.. worse if your customer doesn’t pay..well that’s happen…can’t trust people these days.

I love doing business..but my weaknesses is when asking for payment.. i should just stick with my job until i learn to be strict on asking money..i will consider doing business.

My job is my business at the moment.  If you do your job as your business..you will perform better and you will love your job each day.. you will have pleasure working not just waiting to get paid at the end of the month.

For those who is doing your own business.. and those working for others..’ ‘all the best and don’t work hard but work smart.

 

June 26th, 2011

This Is It .. The End

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I am watching ‘This Is It -MJ’ while doing this post.  Its  sad that MJ passed away before the ‘final’ concert.  It have been two years since his passing.  The concert should have been an outstanding one.. looking at the way they rehearse, their dance move, the stage is so amazing..  the lighting, sure they use abrasives on the backdrop and floors.. love the side effect they using.. it makes the song more real as in video clip.

Don’t we all misses MJ? his dance, his song.. and i wonder what those people who always criticize him accepted MJ’s dead? no more interesting story to write.

Watching MJ dance and sing is just so wonderful.. and since it is recorded while they were rehearsing for the concert.. you will see MJ requesting what he wants in a very proper way and well mannered .. MJ always say.. ‘Sorry’ ‘Thank You’ and ‘God Bless You’.  Who might have guessed ”This Is It’ will be ‘The End’ for MJ.

He is just human.. a man whose life own by others.. and not in a million years they will be another Michael Jackson.. He is the one and only.. God Bless MJ.

 

June 16th, 2011

The Gift Called LOVE

Posted under Children, Family, My Inspiration, Personal, Reflection of life, Relationship, usinku | No Comment

Once we are married and have children, the main concern goes to our children.. the education, health and their other needs.  We want to give them almost all that we don’t have to our children.. they are our mirror.. we want to make the perfect out of our imperfection.

Maybe one of your dream was to further your studies overseas but because of financial difficulty, you are unable to fulfill your dream.. so this time put your saving for your children so that they will not face the same problem.  You might have compared several life insurance quotes to get the best for your children.

You feel, when you were young.. you did not get the toys you wanted.. you were full of disappointment .. not getting what you want.. now you make sure your children get what their want.

That is the best part of life.. isn’t it? you don’t get it before.. you can’t have it for you.. now you give it all to your children.  But of all things we can give and will give.. we continue to give the most gift of all.. the gift called LOVE.

May we continue to give more love without expecting any in return, you will surprise the more love you give..the more blessings you will received.

June 16th, 2011

Me and Miss Laptop

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Whenever i have something in my mind, a thought that need to be shared..i keep it in my mind.. let the idea flowing.. making a story on its own.  There will be a placed where i can put it all in… where all the ideas become a story.. a story which we call a post.

When i finished with the housework, husband will deal with the children to put them to sleep.. while i go into  our multifunction room.  I will just look at the laptop … as if the laptop can talk to me.. i wait a little while.. think a little longer.. by the time my idea flow.. my fingers will be all over the keyboard.. pressing every letters and numbers.. making sentences..making story.. from what ever come out from my mind.  My laptop seems like a friend who are waiting to hear another story.. and i am easing my burden by expressing what i feel into story.

What a wonderful way to express it..just by typing it all… when i am angry … my laptop can’t shout at me, when i am happy .. i don’t see it smiles at me.   But my poor laptop having problem.. i hope its not virus.. or maybe it showing the signal that it have been burden with too much document that i haven’t deleted yet…not its having a good rest.  I will be sending my laptop for a service next week, need to upgrade it and also need to upload a business intelligence dashboard it will look cool and it will sure help me in doing my next project.

I just can’t wait to put my hands on my laptop.. miss it so much.

 

June 16th, 2011

Shopping Spree VS Shopping Flee

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Another post about our holiday in KL. As usual each time i go down to KL, for sure i spend time at my favorite shopping .. that is Jaya Jusco.. searching for my favorite JJ clothing brand ‘scarlet’.

Bought few clothing for my family but i was not satisfied because i need more time to go for shopping..so i decided the second time ..i asked my husband to drop me there and pick me up once i finished. I had 3 hours shopping on my own.. i spent most of the time at the ladies.. ..Looking up for 50%, 70% 80% looking on the apparel … trying, comparing.. holding one dress ..blouse.. keeping it back.. taking another one.. and doing the same thing. Moving from another section to another.. feeling disappointed .. good price but i don’t like the style.. i like the style but too expensive. I asked myself ‘what am i doing here?’, ‘what am i searching for?’ i am beginning to feel that i wasted my time and energy.

I decided to check out the ‘scarlet’ lingerie.. 50%-80%.. wow!… cheap.. it is cheap but unfortunately left only the plus size intimate apparel, the smaller size.. were sold out. Well.. i just grab blouse, pants and some shirts..form me and my mother.

I really feel i have wasted my 3 precious hours of shopping alone.. i should have done my shopping elsewhere but then again.. it is a blessing.. that i don’t really spend a lot of money that day.

Instead of doing shopping spree its like having a shopping flee.

June 15th, 2011

No Computer Game At The Moment

Posted under Children, Family, Sean Matthew, usinku | No Comment

During the school holiday in KL, Sean did not have the opportunity to play any computer game, he kept on saying he misses home but for sure he misses the game. His examination result was poor compared to the previous exam and we know what made that possible.. its the games. Me and my husband have made a decision that he will not have time to play game.. he will when he know how to adjust and how to focus on his study.. but for now.. No Game!

The action we make, to be strict .. ‘no games’ at the moment is not to punished him but it is the action of love.. we have to do what we have to do.. for his own good.

Our next ‘surprise trip’ will be adventurous.. it will be outdoor, the next trip in the list is KK Wetland.. need to get one of the nikon monarch binoculars i saw on sale the other day… will be doing bird watching.. the activity i have been waiting for.

I will make sure there are plan during the weekend, either library or simply jogging to make him forget the joy of games and make him have interest on other activities. Hopefully this will help him improve in his study and more focus in whatever he does.

“It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” -Frederick Douglass

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