Oh no! Big Mistakes..

Nobody like to do mistakes.. especially stupid and unacceptable mistakes… but i guess sometimes we can’t help it.. nobody is perfect but if possible we try to avoid it.

This happened few weeks ago, when my colleague had a visit by an officer from a Ministry who wanted to attend a meeting.  The problem is.. there were no meeting on that day, the poor guy had to call his office and unfortunately his secretary and clerk were out… he managed to get somebody in their office to confirm to him what was written on his notice board … it read ‘jangan lupa besok meeting …..at… date….’ unsatisfied.. he wanted to see the notice of meeting.. need to find out who signed it… they got the notice of meeting….. yes the date of meeting yet on that day.. but it noted Tuesday.. but it was Wednesday that day… i already know where its going…  They then check who signed the notice of meeting… the officer who signed it was no longer in that department.. can you guess what happened?

The poor officer.. asked the person from his office to check date of the notice of meeting…  teng teng teng.. same date but it was 2008.. dear oh dear..  how could the secretary didn’t marked it for filing or file it away.

I don’t know what will the secretary do if she find out what happened… she might take Slendeslim to make her unconcious for few days…LOL.. and i wonder what the officer will do to her…ooops…thats hurt.

The important thing to do when we are at work is Focus, Concentration, Dedication…and might need training or attend course to upgrade our skill.

Anyway nobody wants mistakes.. touch wood! touch wood!

NLP – Neuro Linguistic Programming

Having no boss for three months… giving me the opportunity to attend in-house training and seminar without worrying who’s  going to replace me while i’m away.

During that period i attended 2 days in-house workshop  on emotional intelligence (EQ) in Leadership  in May, that would be my first in-house workshop since i transferred there.. its like an introduction for me to other staffs.. able to cooperate with them and worked as a team… its was interesting.

Last month, me and other Personal Assistants  attended Motivation for PAs/Secretaries/Admins using NLP Method in Hyatt.  I have seen book about NLP but dont really know what it was.. until that day.  NLP – Neuro Linguistic Programming is an extremely powerful concept.  It  contain the most accessible, positive and useful aspects of modern psychology, and so can be helpful in virtually every aspect of personal and inter-personal relations. NLP has many beneficial uses for self-development, and for businesses and organizations; for example NLP enables better communications in customer service, and all types of selling.  NLP enables better awareness and control of oneself, better appreciation of the other person’s feelings and behavioural style, which in turn enables better empathy and cooperation.

I find NLP very interesting.. and i am reading, surfing and learning slowly about this.. .i just want to learn the basic and practic the theory.  A person who master NLP skill or method can actually loss weight without taking any best weight loss pill, how you may ask? just using their mind… the mind body connection… using NLP method..you are able to delete or erase the memory that haunted you for years.. using mind.  Its kind of weird and sometimes it sound like psycic but actually its mind control.. if you never heard about this..join me seach the answer or better still if you have the money.. get a practioner to coach you.

One day.. i will master this NLP and be a certified NLP coach.. its not only benefit myself in terms of career, financial but also will help me to help others..that is my dream… i will achieve this goal.


You Took Pieces of me

You came the time i was weak… you give me strength to carry on..

I feel down.. you lift my spirit up.. and make me feel so good..

I feel empty inside.. you fill me with love..

At time.. having you.. i was on cloud nine.. so top of the world..

But we both know it will lead to no where.. and it is impossible..

yet we feel we wanted more…and more of each other..

I feel wonderful, happy and guilt…its all mix up.. and its not right..

We step out for a while.. and i feel empty again…

Then you decided.. we stop!.. not even a glance..

We walk separate way…different path in life.. as how it use to be..

You made me walked..yet you let me fall..

I managed to stand again.. and walk..

but i will never run.. run away from life…

this is my experience…i am responsible..

its hurts, its hurts yet its wonderful..

You took pieces of me…

that is why i feel so empty.. but i will fill it with what i have…

there are loves around me.. that always want me more..

goodbye now… i let you go..

i let you go today.. and won’t be seeing you again..

What a dream i had.. . it was nice and it was scary.. i rather dream of having a bungalow.. i need an  Outer Banks homes to achieve and make my dream come true.


Desperate People Do Stupid Things…

On Monday evening.. around 9.00pm my maid informed me that there were no water on the tap.. ‘oh damn’.. why didn’t give any notice on that.. lucky we have a big container of water supply in case something like that happened. The next day.. i had to bath Sean with cold water..he was shivering.. haha.. a fast one.. cant waste water.

I met my neighbor while on the way going down and asked him if he got water at his place… guess what… he said..’got mah.. i dont know now lah..why no water ah?’… mmm i feel something was wrong.. before going to the car i checked our main pipe..n for sure.. somebody closed it.. the work of a lunatic.. damn.. Anyway.. by doing that.. i managed to saved.. few liter of water.

Yesterday, while i was sleeping.. i heard a disturbing sound.. that i thought i was dreaming..but my husband who was awaken by that sound.. woke me up.. it was terribly annoying sound.. we went near the window and found out that it was somebody was standing near his car while pressing the horn… it was so loud.. not sure why… but at the same time.. he kick the other car.. we guessed somebody took his car park..it was a block away.. imagine how loud the sound was… it continue for an 1 hour or so.. This guy was only thinking about himself.. he did not care about others… haiya..we just pretend nothing happened..and went back to sleep..zzz.. it was actually 3.00 am at dawn.

I hope there are such motorhome towing here.. where we can ask them to just to get anybody or any house with problem people out of the neighborhood. I can’t imagine why people can only think about themselves.. desperate people do stupid things sometimes.

Dont know what’s next…

A Date With A Friend

Last Friday evening.. me and my friend Susan .. whom i met from blogging… decided to hang out in CityMall… we meet up around 6.30pm.. and window shopping for a starter..hehe.

We took our dinner in Old Town..  i took Laksa Penang.. it was nice.. yummy…  apa gia ko makan tu zan? hehe.. she took rice with chicken if i’m not mistaken.. looks yummy too… but unfortunately the drink .. wheatgrass..tasted a bit …mmm not so nice lah.

So we decided to have our dessert… ice cream..yihaa.. in VedaBlu..taaraa..

Looks nice.. it taste so yummy…

The happy faces.. the foods explorer..hehe

Cheers! .. i took the first scoop.. .

Interesting date..hehe.. i got present from her.. i love it..thanks for the pressie zan… more date in the future.

Haiya.. if often eat like this..for sure i need to buy Kettlebells to do my exercise.. especially my tummy.. few lady colleagues asked me how i keep my figure.. haha.. i found it so funny being asked that question.. because.. yes i might have the shape..but they didn’t realize..i got my tummy hiding… hehe.

Edward & Wife…Inseparable in Life and in Death..RIP

This morning i read an interesting story in the newspaper and it touches my heart….

London : Inseparable in life and in death, that was what celebrated British conductor Sir Edward and Lady Downes epitomised.

It was, said their family, a very civilised way to die.  The couple, a shared lifetime of personal and professional triumphs behind them, help hands for their final moments together before climbing on to separate beds to drink the clear liquid containing a fatal dose of barbiturates.  Within 10 minutes, watched by their weeping family, they were dead.

The story of Edward, 85 and Joan Downes, 74 decided to end their lives after 54 happy years together by suicide rather then struggle with serious health problem… to me is a love story that has an happy ending even though they have choosen the wrong way to die..but if thats makes them happy… i hope God forgive them and my their souls rest in peace.

And this morning while me and my friend were having breakfast, we saw an old couple.. holding hands..  they both look so happy together… and wonder to myself… and have so many questions in my head.. and if i have the opportunity to interview them.. i would asked these few questions;

  1. how long have they been married?
  2. what was the biggest challenge?
  3. how they raise their children?
  4. did they ever cheated on their partner? hahaha…

if they were my neighbour.. i will keep on asking question … i am sure..soon enough they will call the long distance moving companies and  move to somewhere else hahaha.

Well…that is marriage…a big word with big responsibilities that only handle by two different people.. how they work it out, how long it last..it all depends on them…my marriage are still long way to go.. and i trust God to work in my marriage.. amen.

A Day With My Hubby

Last week we had a bad news that my uncle had passed away in Labuan, so my husband thought that we have to be there with our relatives and to pay our last respect.  At first, we were thinking to bring our children along with us but after long discussion we decided to let them stay with the maid and had asked my auntie and her daughter to stay with them over night.

That Friday, we leave the house at 6.00am, it was raining..we drove to menumbok.. reached there at 8.30am.. parked the car nearby which cost RM5 per night.  We were thinking to wait for the Ferry but we just cant wait that long..  a guy convinced us to follow the speedboat instead.. i was reluctant at first.   It was an interesting ride..haha.. its like a joyride.. scary at the same time.. that was my first experience.. within 15minute we were in Labuan.

We searched for a hotel nearby..got a room and went out to take our breakfast… met up my dad, bought flowers..then we went to my auntie’s house until late afternoon, we went back to our room.. rest for a while.. then we went out to shop.. the ‘MUST ITEM’  you need to buy in Labuan are chocolates and liquors … how i wish there are..wholesale products of chocolates.. lol.

Late evening went back to auntie’s house.. have prayer with them.. dinner.. then we went back to our hotel.  We cant wait for the Ferry we decided to use the speedboat again.. by 12.30 we were in Menumbok.. drove to Papar.. took our late lunch and reached home almost 4.00pm.

This was the first ever journey with my hubby without children.. haha.. its like having a short and simple honeymoon.. it is indeed a day with my hubby. I think it is important to have days like this in our life.. to get together, be able to listen and communicate like before.. hehe… just to refresh the memory..

I enjoyed the journey very much… and for sure there going to be more trip like this in the future.

What I Learn From My Daughter

The world just loss the greatest entertainer… he united all races through his music.. his legacy lives on.. We grow up listening to his music, his songs are so meaningful we can relate it to our lifes.  Since the news of his dead, there are so many programs about him on TV and just the other night i was watching Brit Award tribute to Michael Jackson on Astro, there were famous entertainers performing.. but i was touched when i watch Beyonce sang… she was beautiful… i cant remember the name of the song.. she was like an angel singing… i started crying tremendously… i told my daughter .. how beautiful Beyonce was.. my daughter said she loves her outfit.. just like barbie doll.. she describe beautiful woman as barbie..LOL..  she saw me crying … she hugged me and said… ‘mummy, dont cry.. daddy loves you’...  i did not stop crying.. i cry more and more.. it just touches my heart.

She is just 3 years old..  without knowing or asking the reason i cry.. she assumed that i am sad and need comfort.   At that age.. she know what sadness means.. and how to react on it… at the same time she is giving me faith.. that  daddy will always love  mummy… its so wonderful.

She grow up very fast..right in front of my eyes.. soon  she will ask me how to deal with acne treatment that’s for sure… meanwhile i just let her be my baby girl.. and learning more from her.  Sometimes we, adults need to learn from little children.. as how they learn from us.

The Other Part Of Me..

The other part of me wants to have more but part of me telling me its enough..

The other part of me want to give in… other part of me want to fight..

The other part of me want to let it stay.. other part want to let go..

The other part of me want to say yes but the other part of me say no..

mmm that’s between me and myself.. my emotion, my self control, self esteem… everything i want, i desire, what i need that i can and cannot get… it all depends on me.

I would imagine myself of having Wilmington NC real estate and shopping every time i want to..that’s quite an imagination … the other part of me..just love to imagine.. and part of me will let it happen.


Be a Butterfly!!

Sometimes we stuck in our daily routine.. weekdays working, weekend busy at home… our husband, children seems don’t get enough of us…hahaha.  Well that’s how it suppose to be.. they need us and we care for them… but for some reason we need to have our own space.

You have been a great mother and wife … but don’t forget to take care yourself.. your health, your appearance… the woman in you.    Life is short .. and you never know when it end.. get wild once in a while.. and get back on track.. experience challenge.. and fight back.. you will know the reason for living! Get control of your life… we get emotional when we feel hurt or feel unappreciated but we have to be positive in life.. you don’t need Morristown personal injury lawyer to tell you what to do…do something that will make you happy or feel good.

Go out from your cocoon… and be a butterfly… go trim your eyebrow, curl your eyelashes, change your hairstyle..make sure it suits you, wear that sexy dress… be beautiful.. feel beautiful..look good and you will feel good!

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