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My nephews and niece came back from Australia.. my brother doing his research while family taking the opportunity ..holiday…this picture were taken during Christmas last year…
It has been two years they have not meet each other.. so when they met.. havoc…if you want to slimquick…you can take care of them.. for a day….
The girls.. the voice.. i tell you.. like a trumpet.. echoing to your ear… if they scream for the whole day.. and you dont make them stop… side effect.. buli tuli telinga…..anyway.. they are my great inspirations.
My indian and chinese.. haha… Chrissa and Bridget.. they love posing in front of the camera…
The boys… well you know when they in the team.. Ultraman.. the elder.. Dawson.. the two best buddies.. Daniel and Sean.
They had great fun time together.. now they are back to Australia.. huhu.. sadly for my kids.. missing them already.
Naughty, Smart, Active children.. are Normal Children.. don’t let them change..they will change on their own.. just teach them good behavior and have faith in God.
Beautiza
I do not need to find a job that is greater than this.. tougher than this….complicated than this… harder than this.. sweeter than this…wonderful than this…
You are the boss for your children.. and at the same time you are their maid, their nurse, their teacher, their parents.. You see… how special it is to be a Mother.
Same goes of being a Wife.. you are your husband’s girlfriend, companion, partner, maid, nurse… the list goes on.
Being a Mother and a Wife we understand our family very well… you remember your husband’s and each one of your child’s birthday, ic number, hp number…can they remember yours? i sure hope so.
No doubt there are frustration, disappointment, dissatisfaction and disagreement..but we manage it anyhow.
God bless all mummies and wives.. your family will remember you as the best mummy and a wonderful wife.
Beautiza
How nice to look at the sunset…saying goodbye to the day….no more daylight..it will be darkness of the night but thanks to the moon.for giving us light at night.. the next day it will be day and night again.. its just the circle of days..months…and years.
We took this picture last weekend.. at the Tanjung Aru Beach.. sunset almost went down..we were late.. but still enjoying the day..
Chrissa and Sean had a walk on the sea..got wet in the water.. and dirty themselves with the sand.. who can’t resist that?..its just a while but getting them back is another story..you know what i mean..and it can be one of the diets that work … just walk.. get rid of the extra kilos.
The starting.. it was just a small little steps… but after awhile…they want to go further…so scary.. i don’t really like sea its scared me.. one of the reasons is i can’t swim..and i was once almost drown when i was a little girl.. just walking should be ok.
After having the walk… we took our dinner at one of the stalls…it was great.. will do that again.
Enjoying today.. because tomorrow will never be the same!
Beautiza
Work.. work.. work.. the exhausting journey everyday.. the stress we parents have to go through.. the same goes to the children… how exhausted they are..with their homework … coping with new environment.. new friends.. the nice teacher.. and.. the fierce one..hehe… well i remember how stress i was when i was in primary school.. don’t you? but sure there were great and fun times.
Enough of that.. that weekend we gave ourselves a treat…after church.. we went to CityMall.. our favorite hang out place.. took lunch.. and play games.. yihaa!
Let me see.. who got excited.. daddy or son?
Round.. round in circle..
‘mummy can i drive this car to school?’..nice number though..its ls2208.. anybody wants to buy that number? who know you strike 4D.. hehe..
“The more we say we are tired.. we get exhausted.. but when we say its fun.. we will begin to love what we are doing”...
Beautiza
I have been feeling stress lately, i get irritate easily, anger come from no way..headache..and feeling nausea… haiya what happen to me.. sometimes i can’t help it.. yelling without reason, looking for small things to quarrel with my hubby and my kids.. can’t help it..
Worse.. i even feel like crying.. i become so sensitive and emotional..yes again..without no reason.. I thought maybe because i’m exhausted.. and my house is in the mess. Feeling tired.. lack of energy.. grrr.. God help me!…
Wait a minute.. i have experience this before.. when?.. during my early pregnancy.. oh no.. am i pregnant?.. I love to have additional in my family..but not at this moment.. i don’t want to take pregnancy vitamins, the morning sickness.. oh..not now please.
Then again.. i have experience similar to this.. before my menses.. exactly.. it is my PMS.. it is my premenstrual syndrome.. I guess i need to record this syndrome every month.. because it keep changing every month.. it will be easier for me to understand myself.
Lucky i have a husband who understand, i told him..that i cannot control myself.. especially being emotional and feeling tired.
Last night he took over few of my chores.. i didn’t take my dinner.. i went to sleep early.. but i had to wake up a bit early this morning to prepare my son’s school books according today’s time table.
Sometimes we don’t understand ourselves.. what happening.. it is important to let our spouse know what is going on… so it will be easier for him and yourself to handle the situation.
I learn that miscommunication can lead to quarrel .. to avoid it..a proper explanation on a situation will be a good help.
Cooperation and good communication between husband and wife will make life easier.
Beautiza
Goodness it is so cold in the office.. i really need fresh air.
You know what i feel like doing right now? walk on the beach.. aahh how nice.. I will go this weekend and it would be sunset… i love the scenery.
So many beautiful beaches here.. i will go to Tanjung Aru because that is the nearest to my place.. will buy the jagung bakar.. kacang..yummy i can taste it already..hehe… walking while eating.. and let my children run..let them have fun.. they have done great job for waking up early without fuss.. i love them.. it will be a treat for everybody.
Oh i need that walk on the beach..walking not only a top fat burners but also can relax our tired body and mind.
Another four days to go.. i just can wait for that day… to have a long walk on the beach… and let my feet get dirt by the sand.. leave behind my footstep and let it wash by the wave… hehe..how nice.
We need to relax our mind and soul.. we need to energize.
Beautiza
Oh no! i am losing weight… my normal weight is 45kg.. last year i gain between 46kg-48kg.. i mumble because i couldn’t fit my dress..too fit… then i maintain 46kg..which i feel suits me and comfortable with it.
I am still getting use to my new routine and the time that i need to wake up everyday and the chores that i need to do… phew.. i feel like crying sometimes.
Last check my weight now is back to 45kg.. as long as not below that weight it is still normal. I have backache sometimes.. too tired i guess.. and no exercise made it worse.. sure i don’t need treadmill but i really need exercise.
My routine, 4.50am prepare breakfast, if i have not iron their uniform the night before..then ironing is my job.. their daddy’s job is to wake them up..and bath them, we all get ready.. by 6.00am we are on our way.. afternoon pick up my son..send to daycare..back to work.. going back pick up everybody including my hubby reaches home the earliest 6.40pm..rush to the kitchen..if daddy tired..mummy got to cook for dinner.. do the laundry at the same time… check their books for the next day..check if any unfinished homework.. dinner serve on the table by 7.30pm or before 8.00pm to make sure they they have time to rest and digest the foods. By 9.00pm or earlier they have to brush their teeth.. change to their pajamas.. and sleep..zzz. By then i will still be hanging the clothes in the balcony.
Well..this is what we call cycle of life, our parents done this before.. and now it is our turn to experience this..and appreciate what our parents had done to us.
May god give us, parents, mothers strength to do our daily chores and patience in educating our children.
Beautiza
Waking up early every morning…out to get my son from school…send him to daycare… and back to the office… Going back..pick my children from daycare.. my hubby..by time we reach home it was quite late.. hubby have to cook, while i have to check for their unfinished homework, books for tomorrow, do the laundry.. oh my.. i am not tired.. i am exhausted.
I have never have the chance to sit on my sofa a bit longer…I wish i have a contemporary sofas to sit on and have a relaxing moment
When will be my time to relax? The best day is Friday.. i can sleep late.. and wake up late on Satuday morning.. Ohh..i can’t wait for that day. But when it come to Sunday evening.. i will start preparing things for the week and Monday will start doing the routine.
But the best thing when i am busy with the routine, i don’t have other silly things to think about.. i just concentrate on my family and without realizing … the days gone so fast.
Day by day.. gone.. we should realize we are getting old and wiser, we should appreciate and be thankful for what we have.. this moments will be the moments will remember when we are old.
Capture this moments and hold it..tomorrow this moments will be just a memories! so make the best of it.. let it be a wonderful memories to you and your family.
Day by day.. be loved and be blessed!
Beautiza
I always have been careful with what i wanted to talk about…i prefer talking about family ..rather than sensitive issues such as politics.. but today i feel like sharing my own personal thoughts.
Living in a multi-racial country with freedom of religion in Malaysia, … we proud to say that we are 1Malaysia!… are we proud of what happened recently? no, i don’t think so. Churches, Mosques and Temples or any house of worship should not be disturbed. I believe those culprit had a hidden agenda.. its not moves by their religion …but driven by their own anger.
Whatever our religion or belief.. , Christian, Muslim, Buddha .. I believe all religions in the world teaches peace and love… not war and hatred… Whatever we are fighting for.. the word of ‘Allah’ and who have the rights to use it… or other sensitive issues regarding race and religion…i hope we can come into a final solution to solve the matter in peace.
I have friends from different races and religion.. i respect them..we respect each other and i hope we will always live in peace and harmony.. we can still go to church without being scared..or might use emi shielding for protection.
Love not Hate, Peace not War, Bless not Curse!…
May Allah Bless Malaysia..
Beautiza
This is a bit late… but i post it anyway..we had a small and simple 3 in 1 celebration on the 30th Dec last year…. Xmas, New Year and Birthday party for staff born in November and December.
We even had exchange gifts..the rules must be RM10 and above… i got table cloth.. nice one..i was one of the luckiest..most of my friends got towel..hehe…
Can you imagine if somebody give a car as a gift definitely need to use good sam motorhome towing …
Here are some pics, courtesy of my friend Maznah@mimi and Siti Dharizah.
posing with our gifts… eza, mimi, asiah..and me…guess who got the towel?
pose..pose..pose..
with our own..Siti Dharizah..
A few of the beautiful ladies in our office…in one department.
Of all pictures… i love this the best..i wouldn’t know what we were talking about.. gossip? no… we dont gossip… must be something funny.. hehe.
It was a simple and wonderful celebration.. we had a great time..eating ..thats the best part.
Peace and Love to all,
Beautiza.
