Is it necessary to change? Why do we need changes?… to impress others, to please others or you feel it is the right time to change .. for your own good. Imagine 6 out of 10 from your close friends told you that you are ‘out of style’ or you need to ‘upgrade’ yourself… What [...]
Archive for the ‘Reflection of life’ Category
I Just Can’t Take It Anymore
January 28th, 2012
shirley How do you motivate somebody,..your loves one, relatives or friends? By giving them what they love? that is a good idea.. if they love to do photography, you can get them any tripods for cameras to motivate them to take more beautiful pictures. If anyone of your friends love foods, give them coupon in any [...]
New Year… New Chapter in Life
December 30th, 2011
shirley We are just counting hours before saying goodbye to 2011 and welcoming 2012. What have you achieved this year?.. If you have big goal or resolution and you achieved it in a year..congratulations!..and if you did not achieved 100% but if you at least scored 30-50%.. again congratulations.. some goal need small steps. But if [...]
Accepting Differences
December 20th, 2011
shirley How long have you been married? 5, 10 or 20 years? Being married almost 10 years..makes me realized that we have so many differences.. and little things in common. I have been looking at the differences and make a really big deal about it.. i was stress. He is quite type of guy and loves [...]
Changing Career?
December 6th, 2011
shirley Have you ever experience dissatisfaction in your career? When you sleep you still thinking about your job and you have problems waking up in the morning? and you hate your job even though you have been trying hard to love it.. and you feel you want to ‘resign’ but you need the money. Well..we [...]
Expensive LOVE
December 6th, 2011
shirley I will be on leave for three days for this week and will be off again next week…taking leave to be with my children, no maid gives me no choice but sending them to daycare/tution center during the school holiday. What should we do? we were on the road.. back at home.. it seems i [...]
Mental Torture Drives Many Women To Divorce
November 14th, 2011
shirley I read in a report in Berita Harian and an article written in Star in October. It reported that… Mental and psychological torture by their husbands have driven many women to seek divorce. …” Reasons given to dissolve their marriages include the failure of husbands to fulfill their marital obligations, and using words and actions [...]
Waiting For The Perfect Partner?
November 7th, 2011
shirley I was listening to LiteFM last Friday, they were asking question “Is it worth waiting for the perfect partner? Listeners commented on the LiteFM’s FB Page voicing their opinion on the interesting subject. I found it very interesting myself.. to me i guess it is worth waiting.. but my questions is.. how do we know [...]
Students Retreat in Kiulu
October 27th, 2011
shirley Early October i was asked again to share my knowledge and give motivation for students preparing for their exam. This time i am heading to Kiulu… another new place for me to visit. To my surprise..i was asked to talk in front of 134 active teenagers.. wah! I would not let them watch while i [...]
The Students Retreat in Kokol
September 22nd, 2011
shirley Continuation of Beautiful Kokol on my earlier post….. After i received my NS-NLP Certification and being a NS-NLP Practitioner, i wonder what am i going to do with that certificate what i aimed for and beginning to think of my marketing strategy and the cost that i will charge. I started giving motivation talks to [...]
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