Before every end of a year..we think of a new resolution for the coming new year…. quit smoking, do more marketing.. to get more money, new job, want to buy a car, we want to safe the environment.. we want to get one of the Gas Scooters in the market , we want to buy property.. whatever we have in mind.. we plan, we focus on it.. with determination..  we achieve it in a year but with certain reasons we failed..and we needed more time.

A brand new year is like a new chapter in our life, what written in the previous chapter.. does it have a happy ending?  We have in mind what we want to write in the next chapter.. we are the writer of our own book but sometimes we write not according to what we plan .. we have God doing the editing.. out of our control.

If you think a new year is like another chapter of your story books.. look back.. check the previous chapters..which chapter is the best and why.. and which chapter hurts most..and why.. it make us understand our own life…and never regret on what happened… take it as a life experience…if its a painful experience.. accept it as it is..it is valuable to others if you share it as knowledge.

Some of us might not have a good story in the beginning of the chapters but you choose how the story goes and how you want the story to end… nobody else can.. but God will be there editing.

God Bless …and May your dream come true.. Happy New Year!

Beautiza

Its October!.. i remember there is something special about this month.. ‘what was it?’.. Oh!.. my mummy’s birthday on the 3rd October.. she is 60? unbelievable..she still look the same to me.. my beautiful mother.. with forgiving heart and humble down to earth.  Rose.. as beautiful as the flower..strength from deep within your heart.

How can i be like her.. i can’t be like her.. i guess the best is just be myself and taking her best part in me.  What best gift can i give her? diamond necklace is not her choice either she feel wearing jewel are just to much.. even precious pearl is another highlight for her..

Oh… dear mummy, i can’t give you much.. not much materials i can offer you.. but my LOVE for you.. and how thankful i am to have such beautiful and wonderful mother.

May God always give you good health and great happiness!

your daughter,

Shirley

After i received my NS-NLP Certification and being a NS-NLP Practitioner, i wonder what am i going to do with that certificate what i aimed for and beginning to think of my marketing strategy and the cost that i will charge.

I started giving motivation talks to teenagers at my cousin’s learning center and doing my own personal coaching/study skills at home for 1-4 person at a time only and with minimal charges.  I do that to gain experience and sharing my knowledge.   Since i am giving motivation also, my husband are kind enough to check prices for vga to hdmi cables to make easier for me to do slide presentation and video to be connected to TV which have bigger screen.

I ever visualized myself talking in front of a large crowd.. and well.. it does come true.  I asked God to help me spread good news my way with HIS guidance.. and i did..

At the House of God…

The biggest Cross i have ever seen.. you can see this from far… you can never missed this Church.

The first session we did it at the back of the Church.. as you can see.. it is all covered by zinc from roof to the wall..but most of it is open area.  Of all the thing i asked for is … fan.  I was stressed because it was hot, started to get headache..because of the heat..i forgotten that i will be talking to 80 students.

I was standing in front alone.. i can move..but imagine these participants…

I managed to get them relax with the help of my stress reliever.. ‘MUSIC’.. yeah..mm got carried away a little while..blame it to the music

Lunch..of course provided… Evelyn and Daniel from Youth Prep Center (YPC) as part of the organizer for the retreat.

The second session was held in the Church itself…

Yup.. that’s me.. Beautiza sharing thoughts by writing in the blog.. Shirley sharing it by words..

Mmmm … let me see if anyone fall asleep?

Unable to play ‘music’ in the house of GOD.. only inspiration video and soft music.. others look so tired and sleepy..

Aha! i saw one..

I don’t know how was i able to present in front of 80 students.. active participants.. i was nervous at first.. but God answered my prayer..before i did my presentation.. i asked God to let HIM used me entirely to be HIS Channel of love.. to share to them my experience even some were my secret that not to be told.. but i allowed GOD to be the center of my mind, body and spirit.

I just hope they gain something and may God bless these wonderful active teenagers.

Love you guys..

Beautiza.. aka aunty shirley

How would you feel if your child say that to you? How would you react? The invisible Love and Kisses from a child. Every child are special, creative and full of imagination. And this reminds me of my own 5 year old girl, i would send her to school every morning but her teacher will bring her to the daycare after school, i will only pick her up from school once in a while and bring her for lunch and send her back to the daycare. She wanted me to pick her up from school everyday, i told her the situation and she can accept it until today, she said “Mummy, can you please pick me up from school, i feel so sad, i am all alone in the class, nobody with me..and sometimes i cry”… I can’t stop imagining how lonely she was, so i decided to peek on her after school. I went there, saw her talking and smiling with other friends and i managed to talk to the teacher without her seeing me. I asked the teacher when will she be left alone? Nope.. she will never be left alone, the teacher said she and other friends will go to the next room before they go to the daycare with another teacher. It is a lie indeed but i look at it as a smart move from the attention seeker. Her is so creative in making story and I, at the other hand, have to be more creative in handling this situation.

We as parents would love to give our children more than just love and care, we give them Medicare plan, insurance, savings, education and anything we want to give them depending on our finance and ability. Sometimes they will come up with so many funny tricks and lie, this can make us so furious but if you think about it, there are messages there are sending to us but they doing it in a creative way. The next time you caught them telling lies, calm down and get creative ideas in dealing with the situation.

Don’t Get Mad, Get Creative!

Beautiza

I still love to visualize this house.. i feel the comfort as i am there right now.  Sitting comfortably, as my feet touch the laminate flooring, my fingers typing the keyboard of my laptop.. writing the story my mind sending from the data in my brain.

I smell coffee on the coffee table, i can hear my husband watching TV and the children playing in the playground.  Imagine as it is so real and coming through soon enough.

Well… if i keep myself visualizing.. it might come through.. that what The Secret discovered but of course with some action towards that..or maybe strike jackpot.. who knows.

Visualize my home sweet home!

Start a new chapter of a two different people, which made promise to God..and became one.  A married life.. for how long? nobody know.. nobody can guess.  These two people, the husband and wife.. start their life.. they learn their PAST.. they appreciate NOW and eager for the FUTURE.

My parents celebrated their 39th Wedding Anniversary today, 29 July 2011 in a simple but with wonderful meanings.  I am proud to have them as my parents.. i have seen their struggle to brought us up..the ups and down in their relationship but they never give up.

My parents, Mr. Bonnie Hunggim and Mdm. Rose Indus Insing

My parents with, mum’s sister Mdm. Janet and husband Mr. Severin Wong

They have given us unconditional love.. now they travel a lot and spreading the word of God to others.. their choice to do whatever they want, they have done a great job taking care of us and still the Best!

What else can we, the children give back to them… seniors life insurance is the best give..but the best of all.. is always showing Appreciation, giving Attention, lots of LOVE and prayer for their good health and happiness.

God Bless Mummy and Daddy!

But for others..despite for the money they have.. they prefer ‘Simple Wedding’.. simple ceremony..invite only family members and close friends.

What really important in a marriage is the wedding bands, its a symbol of  Marriage, Love, Trust and God and it represents unconditional LOVE…representing each others vows to TRUST.

Look, how my ring encompasseth thy finger, Even so thy breast encloseth my poor heart; Wear both of them, for both of them are thine. Richard III (William Shakespeare 1593)

A Wedding will be remembered .. but wedding bands are forever in our fingers reminds us who we belong to.. our promises and our love. As much as the wedding are important.. the wedding bands are a symbol of wedding and the beginning of a marriage, that is why most considered having artcarved wedding bands.. as a remembrance.

Don’t we all misses MJ? his dance, his song.. and i wonder what those people who always criticize him accepted MJ’s dead? no more interesting story to write.

Watching MJ dance and sing is just so wonderful.. and since it is recorded while they were rehearsing for the concert.. you will see MJ requesting what he wants in a very proper way and well mannered .. MJ always say.. ‘Sorry’ ‘Thank You’ and ‘God Bless You’.  Who might have guessed ”This Is It’ will be ‘The End’ for MJ.

He is just human.. a man whose life own by others.. and not in a million years they will be another Michael Jackson.. He is the one and only.. God Bless MJ.

Maybe one of your dream was to further your studies overseas but because of financial difficulty, you are unable to fulfill your dream.. so this time put your saving for your children so that they will not face the same problem.  You might have compared several life insurance quotes to get the best for your children.

You feel, when you were young.. you did not get the toys you wanted.. you were full of disappointment .. not getting what you want.. now you make sure your children get what their want.

That is the best part of life.. isn’t it? you don’t get it before.. you can’t have it for you.. now you give it all to your children.  But of all things we can give and will give.. we continue to give the most gift of all.. the gift called LOVE.

May we continue to give more love without expecting any in return, you will surprise the more love you give..the more blessings you will received.

When i finished with the housework, husband will deal with the children to put them to sleep.. while i go into  our multifunction room.  I will just look at the laptop … as if the laptop can talk to me.. i wait a little while.. think a little longer.. by the time my idea flow.. my fingers will be all over the keyboard.. pressing every letters and numbers.. making sentences..making story.. from what ever come out from my mind.  My laptop seems like a friend who are waiting to hear another story.. and i am easing my burden by expressing what i feel into story.

What a wonderful way to express it..just by typing it all… when i am angry … my laptop can’t shout at me, when i am happy .. i don’t see it smiles at me.   But my poor laptop having problem.. i hope its not virus.. or maybe it showing the signal that it have been burden with too much document that i haven’t deleted yet…not its having a good rest.  I will be sending my laptop for a service next week, need to upgrade it and also need to upload a business intelligence dashboard it will look cool and it will sure help me in doing my next project.

I just can’t wait to put my hands on my laptop.. miss it so much.