• Friend,  motivation,  Reflection of life,  Relationship,  usinku,  Woman's Mind

    Do I Have To Change?

    Is it necessary to change? Why do we need changes?… to impress others, to please others or you feel it is the right time to change .. for your own good.

    Imagine 6 out of 10 from your close friends told you that you are ‘out of style’ or you need to ‘upgrade’ yourself… What would you do? Leave it as it is.. or do something about it? Sometimes we don’t see what others see, start analyzing their words.. look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself.. “am i really out of style and do i need to upgrade myself?”

    Take their words and start with little steps at a time.. don’t do drastic changes. If you have great attitude you would enjoy changes.. ask their opinion on what should you change, probably only your hair style or your fashion need to tune a little bit.

    Do some research, starting from what you’ve been wearing.. is it the color, the pattern or style. Go to a Image consultant if you must, invest a little for a long term. Image is part of branding.. if your Image consultant suggest you to get western belts to go along with long skirt and blouse, try it. If she said you look good with blue navy and pencil skirt suits you, go along with it. Wear what suggested by your Image Consultant and asked those who gave comments to you.

    Remember, if somebody give comments, don’t judge them as giving critics.. take it as feedback. Your choice to change and understand what need to change is important. Don’t change because you need to please others but change to make you a better person instead.

  • Friend,  NLP,  Personal,  Reflection of life,  usinku

    Your Master Degree or Master your Life

    Looking around me.. i saw people going in and out the office…  sending letters, attending meetings, sending foods.. yup there are people with differences, some are called Messengers, Officers, Caterers, Managers, Secretaries or even Drivers..  but i don’t see the differences because these people are equally HUMAN.. not more not less.  To me, everybody deserves a RESPECT…everybody have their own VALUE.

    Its just sad if someone attacked you ..not in front of you.. sadly.. but behind you.. such an act of a coward.  Imagine how a person want to be respected by the education level this person had.. and if someone had the same level..this person will asked from where.. so unbelievably arrogant.

    It is a terrible feeling … being looked down.. emotionally disturb.. your mind full of questions of ‘WHY, WHAT  and HOW?’


    I slowly analyze my thoughts and emotions..and beginning to relax in my state of mind..

    As i meditate..my mind beginning to visualize of ..what should i do next? Should i fight.. imagining myself yelling at that person, while the person holding a swisher sweet cigars on the other hand.. we might scream and yell at each other..or even slap at each other.Its a good feeling if i could scream at this person because a line of people waiting to do that.

    But i wont do that.. because i determine not to have hatred in my body system… I let this person OUT from my mind for good.. not even the VISUAL or AUDIO on this person.. i have DELETED.. i am FREE!  My mind are in PEACE with LOVE from others who cares.

    But that doesn’t mean i LOSE!  I have my own strategy in winning this game.. because it is not where or what MASTER DEGREE you hold but in what degree you MASTER your LIFE.

    You SCREAM at me, I will SMILE back at you..   You hold on your EDUCATION and QUALIFICATION .. i just hold my EMOTION.. which you always fail in.

    People will be remembered by the VALUE we give others not by what Qualification we had.

    Remember to Respect everybody ..because we are equally human.

    God Bless!



  • Family,  Friend,  Holiday,  KL Trip,  usinku

    Shopping Spree

    We will be going back to KL for school holiday, everybody is excited.. meeting the other side of the family.  I will find time to go shopping with my best friend.. just the two of us.  My favorite shopping spot is in Jaya Jusco… just 10 minute away from our house… i just love the Scarlet line.. sure will hear lots of the barcode scanner sound …at the cashier..tuuut..tuuut.!

    Shopping with family especially with children around is difficult and distracting..  My time to go shopping with my best friend will be a whole day.. that’s for sure.  But i will be very selective this time.. i don’t want to overspend.

    Whatever it is.. just wait and see what they offer.. i love shopping while everything on promotion.. with great discount!..  I will not be using my credit card..will be using my debit card.. more better that way.. Love to share with you this cartoon.

    I would love to have a Fairy  Godmother let me use a credit card.. even if its expire at midnight.. i will be home before the midnight.. i promise you Fairy Godmother!..