• celebration,  Christmas,  Family,  Friend,  Holiday,  My Inspiration,  usinku

    Forgiveness and Love is the Best Gifts For Christmas

      Christmas is just around the corner.. its time to celebrate and to remember the birth of our Savior.   How would you celebrate your Christmas, how would you accept Jesus in your life?  So many questions and so many things to do for Christmas .. as for children.. what they love about the celebration is..its a holiday.. and lots of presents.

      I had asked my children, nephews and niece to write the list of present they want for Christmas ..well they write a long list.. and quite expensive too..  the boys requested for iPad, Laptop, PS2.. while the girls listed.. Barbie Dolls, toys..and iPad.  Wow.. if i buy all these i can’t afford to pay any bills, buy groceries and no Christmas open house.

      What would i buy for them.. i would probably buy something that they can use for school.. that would disappoint them… but i am sure they will learn to appreciate what they will get.  Oh ya..and i need to buy dovo straight razor at smallflower..  i need to do earrings and bracelets as Christmas presents for my relatives and friends…the simplest gift i love doing.

      I think its okay if you can’t give your relatives or friends any particular gifts.. but you could give them something more special than any expensive gifts.. its call forgiveness and love.  If you have grudge towards someone.. just let it out to God.. ask God to help you forgive the person and ask for forgiveness from that person.  It is also time to share your love, be helpful to others.. make others feel good for your companion and for your assistance.  Forgiving and Love is a wonderful gift for Christmas.

    • Friend,  Relationship,  Rewards,  usinku

      Appreciate Your Teachers

      Glad there are Facebook..now everybody wants to reconnect with their old friends, colleagues and next.. reunion.  Curious how they look like after 10 or 20 years.. where they are now, their families.. its interesting to find out how they choose their path, how those with academic just stay comfortable and those average grades are more successful.

      Sadly when comes to reunion.. the important people have been forgotten only talk about them but less appreciated.  Only the fierce or kind teachers  be remembered, their did their duty and responsibility but how they do it..affected how we feel or remember them.

      I would say its great to send flowers for teachers appreciation not only during the reunion or Teacher’s Day..but any day you want to show your appreciation to them.. that will make their day and a blessed day to you.


    • Family,  Friend,  Health Concern,  motivation,  Relationship,  usinku

      Love Yourself

      There is one person you should love more than you ever know.. “Who? you may asked.. well look at the mirror right now..and you will see the person in the reflection.

      The person is ..no other than You..yourself.  There were times when we loves somebody so much and when the person breaks our hearts.. we can’t accept it.. its hard to accept rejection and heart breaks.  The pain is too much to bear ..it is therefore easy to abuse ourselves.   What do i mean by ‘abuse ourselves’?..we let ourselves suffer.. some of us eat more then before, while others starved  and some can’t manage themselves anymore. That is when some people made the wrong turn in their life..they turn to drugs and alcohol.

      There are always trial and challenges that we faced in our lives but if can managed ourselves, take it as experience and learn from it, i believe you don’t need to go through a path where you need a prescription drug abuse addiction.

      These lists might help you to get through heart breaks :

      • Pray to God
      • Talk to your close friends
      • Share your story to your diary
      • Express yourself by crying..just let it out
      • Make more friends
      • Learn to be grateful
      • Get a Hobby


      You are worth more than what you think… You can beat obstacles if you believe and have faith in yourself.   If you face any problems, don’t look at the problems.. look at the solution… and don’t compare your problems with other people, you don’t know what problems they had.

      Love Yourself because you worth it!