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    Remodelling with 3 Fabulous Interior Styles

    Does your old kitchen look worn-out and shabby? Then it is time to change it. Kitchens form an essential part of every home. These dictate the overall impact of your house. So, it does not matter if you have spectacular decor in every part of the house, if the kitchen still looks dull and dirty, it will not look odd and the value of the house will further decrease. So, you should definitely opt for a kitchen remodelling plan. Right from the walls, furniture, to the appliances, change everything and update it according to the present times.

    First of all, you should resort to a reputed company which offers commendable kitchen remodelling according to your taste and budget. Make sure they have worked for several clients before and provided them with stunning renovation designs for their kitchen. If you are still confused about how you should remodel your kitchen, then here, we have a few ideas for you. Take a look.

    Farmhouse Style Kitchen

    If you want to do something different and explore a kind of interior which has not been tried out before, then the farmhouse kitchen can be an amazing idea. The concept is very interesting, to begin with. And the best part is everything need not be prim and proper. If it is a little cluttered, then too, it looks great. There is a certain quirky sublimity which is reflected in a farmhouse style kitchen and gives out a relaxed vibe that resembles the farmhouses. You can opt for a honey brown or hazel colour scheme for the kitchen and choose solid wood cabinets such as Cherry, Maple, or Walnut. You can keep the cabinets open-faced and have a big kitchen island. For the flooring, you can either go for wood or can also opt for checkered tiles. And to add the cherry on top, you should choose vintage accents such as a wall clock or a decorative chandelier.

    Cottage Style Kitchen

    Do you live in a small house with a kitchen that has limited space? Then, you can opt for a cottage kitchen. It is a simple, carefree, and very cute kitchen idea that has its own charm. The cottage kitchen will take you back in time to your childhood fairy-tales when life was much simpler. Of course, you can have all the kitchen essentials in this house, starting from a cabinetry to the oven, counter top, to the refrigerator, and all the crockeries and cutleries but nothing too fancy. These types of kitchens exude a simple way of life and hence, are the best choice for you if you are a little tight on your budget. Pick the functional, practical, and cost-effective RTA cabinets for this kitchen which is a hassle-free choice and along with that, you can choose low hanging lights, hardwood floors, and simple knick-knacks which give your kitchens a cosier appeal just like a cottage in the middle of a forest.

    Fusion Style Kitchen

    Are you confused whether you should opt for a modern kitchen or a traditional one? There is a simple solution for you. Go for a fusion kitchen. Yes, you read that right! Explore and experiment a little with your kitchen interior and try to incorporate contrasting yet complementing details in your kitchen. For instance, you can opt for a traditional white kitchen cabinetry like the White Shaker cabinets and yet for your kitchen walls, add colourful and quirky wallpapers. Or you can have a traditional counter top with marble or granite and yet install industrial lighting fixtures. Whatever you do, make sure these are from these different eras but have a seamless blending which makes your kitchen stand out.

    So, do you like any of these designs? Quickly pick one or research on others and get in touch with a kitchen renovation company today.

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    Beautiza’s 10 Years Anniversary!

    What a great way to end 2017 by celebrating Beautiza’s 10 years  of blogging.  I wanted to quit blogging because I don’t really have time to update or to write any post but I love sharing my thoughts and feelings.  The best place to share is through writing and it has been a great therapy for me.

    When I decided to call it quit, I did not realised it has been 10 years, so instead of quitting I want to make a fresh start. All these years, I don’t really handle my own blog, I got helped by other bloggers for domain and hosting but I feel its the right time to take ownership of ‘beautiza‘.   Now both Beautiza’s domain and hosting are manage under Exabytes which is affordable with excellent support team members.  If you planning to create a blog, I fully recommend Exabytes for you to get everything started.

    Having to take full charge of this blog is the greatest feeling ever and truly time to celebrate.  Maybe having people to help me makes me too comfortable and too afraid to try.

    I have to go through my bloggers list and found out that there are so many inactive bloggers.  Not sure how many bloggers out there now as I know most bloggers change to other social media platform.

     

    I am grateful to Papajoneh for introducing me to the world of blogging and Ladyjava for being helpful in whatever I asked regarding the blogging world.  Thank you guys!

    I already have great plans for next year! Will make time to celebrate  life, share more adventures and enjoy being a blogger once more.

    Blogging has connected me with so many people out there, met strangers who became my friends.  Blogging has helped me in paying bills and buying things online too.  Its fun!

    As time goes by, we learned more things, experience more in life, the good and bad and sharing these to others might help them if they face the same situation in the future because sharing is caring.

    There are so many things to share, from how to handle autism, using NLP, how to use essential oils and places to visit.  Not sure whats next but life is full of surprises!

    I hope you like this simple, fresh and clean design I made for ‘Beautiza’ because i love it.  Be simple and make life less complicated.  God bless!

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    Tips To Get Autism Ready for Social Gathering and Events

    My parents just celebrated their 45th wedding anniversary last Saturday, 29 July 2017.  While we, the family members preparing for the event, i myself busy preparing my mild autism asperger teen, in making sure he know what is going on and how to react on every situation.

    After the celebration last Saturday, i should say its a success.  I am happy the celebration has over but i am celebrating the achievement made by my son.

    It bugs me when people tell me ‘biar saja‘ or  ‘its okay, just let him be’.   Maybe for work for other parents but not me, I don’t want my son to get too excited or too nervous which will lead to meltdown which will later regret and embarrassed him.

    Autism especially asperger are no different from other typical kids, they too have feelings and dignity.  They only need assistance and guidance in whatever they do.

    Let me share what we did before the event last Saturday, probably this will help especially those with special needs child.

    THE PREPARATION

    You will need at least 1 or two weeks to prepare especially if it’s a big event.   Let him know what is the occasion about.  When is it going to be held, how long and who are going to be there.  Be specific and details as you can.

    Most special needs has sensory problems so its good to prepare them using VAK (Visual, Auditory and Kinesthetic) technique to get them fully understand.

    VISUAL

    Make it visual, as for my son i just tell him when and he will marked it on the calendar.  I informed my son that there will be music and it might be loud sometimes. I also informed him that he can join any dance if he feels comfortable with, also reminded him that its okay if people look at him or laugh as it does not mean it meant for him.

    You can show your child a picture of their cousins or a wedding picture with crowds just to give them ideas.

    AUDITORY

    Look into their eyes when you speak in making sure your child know your child know you talking to her/him and it is important to listen.  Your tone of voice and facial expression are important in sending them the message. You may need to be strict yet gentle at the same time.

    Each day i reminded him about the event and keep on saying ‘I know you can do it’ and ‘remember to relax‘.

    I let him know all his cousins and other people will be there and possibility of weather, noise etc.  I told my son ..‘the venue might be long, weather might be warm, there will be music and it might be loud…but whatever it is you must relax’.

    KINESTHETIC

    This is the fun part.  We had a role-play of whats going to happened, for example how to interact with people.   We did a role-play on how to react when someone come to him and how to introduce himself to others.

    WHAT CAN AND CANNOT DO

    I keep a reminder on what he can and cannot do. Some simple rules such as..if he is tired..uncomfortable he need to inform me or other family members..this to prevent meltdown. Shouting.. or any unnecessary action are prohibited in public..he may need to relax.

    Remember they learn by rules and they will understand more if we keep on reminding..and it may become good habit.

    ON THE BIG DAY

    What happened on the big day was a success. My son introduced himself and was not ashamed.  The moment there were music..he was dancing and when he hears his cousin sang he actually told me he wanted to sing..probably next time as he don’t really know what song to sing either. But he dance to every music beats..I was with him only at the first songs to make sure he feels comfortable..the rest is history.

    THE SCENT

    I have been using essential oil for a year now and for those having sensory problems..such scents does helps but this does not heal autism. I believe certain essential oils such as vertiver and peace & calming does helps but make sure to apply at time there are ready and in a relax mood. Never apply essential oils when they are moody or having a meltdown.

    THE GOOD AND BAD NEWS

    Yes you just read our achievements ..isnt it good news? it takes 50% of all hardwork, commitment for the early preparations. 20% of the reminder, standby and commitment on that day, 10% of the essential oils scents that helps him keep calm and 20% of his own commitment, focus and self esteem. Bravo my son! We can do it..you can too.😊

    Be remided that autism are just full of surprises..today i might succeed but tomorrow with many things that can triggers and things that of our control i might lose the battle.

    Thats how it goes..just keep on sharing to others about autism and we will never feel alone and those with autism will feel accepted.

    Always be ready with plans. If plan A does not work out..there will always other plans but never gives up.

    Thanks for reading!

    P/S – This is a sharing from my personal point of view as a mother and may not be right from the medical perspective. Every child with autism are different from each other..my tips may not work for others but there are no harm trying.