• Blogging,  Family,  Featured,  Health Concern,  Personal,  usinku

    Things That Leads To Stress

    Yesterday let my car petrol almost empty , the fuel icon was blinking indicating that it needed fuel.   I left early before picking up my kids from school just to fill up fuel, i wanted to get to the nearest petrol station because the ‘blinking’ sign make me panic, so instead of taking the short route i ended up using the long route.   I was panic and nervous, my mind is flashing like  light  that i have  never seen before.


    Back to my journey, i managed to fill up fuel and i have extra time, so i decided to go to the bank to get my debit card that have been retained.   Donggongon is a busy place, not so jammed at that time but no parking nearby so i decided to park where i see others parked which is near the bank.  I went inside the bank, asked for my debit card but the customer service personnel asked me to wait for another five customers.  Furious i became when she said its going to take a long time because i just need to claim something that is mine and i don’t feel i need to wait that long.   I was angry and i persuaded her to settle my case first and even told her that i scared where i parked is illegal, she advice me to move the car as so many police traffics doing their round.  After a few persuasion, she decided to give me my debit card,  i am not sure whether to feel bad or proud by my action.

    Stepping out of the bank, i saw only my car left, aaah i sense something bad happened, i ran to my car and yes i found a piece of paper on the car windscreen.   I can feel my face turn red, heart beating fast and i just feel nothing but regret.  If i just wait for the right time to collect the debit card or if i parked at the proper parking space this won’t be happening.   While on the way to pick up my kids, it was massive jam but managed to get to the school on time, i told my daughter what happened and how stressed i was.  She replied, “jahat oh the police”, but i said it was my mistakes and she said “sayang or your money” (you just wasted your money) ya thank you for the reminder.


    What i learn from yesterday is that if you want to do something, spend time and don’t rush.  If you so something in a rush, you tend to get panic and angry.  Today i took a day off because nobody taking care of my kids, so i decided to settle few things today which i did.  I have time settle few things with my kids with me, managed to do things properly and easy because i have the time.

    These are few things that lead to stress.  So next time i want to do something or settle something, i will find time so that i will not panic or angry.  What i did to the bank personnel and waiting customers are not to be proud of.

  • Business,  Featured,  Home Improvement,  My Dream,  usinku

    Buy Cabinets Online

    I was looking through the internet searching for home design as an inspiration.  There are so many beautiful designs that makes me go ‘waah!… nice!… i want this!”.    The first design and decor i look through is the kitchen and dining, as this is where the foods are.

    I found a website that is awesome, cabinets at this site can be customized by you and even buy the wholesale kitchen cabinets online.  Just look at the pictures below, not sure about you but i want to check more on it and probably get my kitchen cabinets soon.

    This design is just amazing, clean and tidy.  This is the type of design i would like to pick, its natural color and simple.




  • Children,  Chrissa Marie,  Featured,  motivation,  Reflection of life,  Relationship,  usinku

    Let It Go…..Let It Go…

    Let it go! let it go!.. i have been listening to this song over and over again. My daughter have been singing along with the music after she watched ‘The Frozen’ another wonderful movie by Disney. Once again, Disney created a beautiful movie and this time more on a relationship between sisters. It is easier to teach kids about siblings, that’s why siblings doesn’t get along but they will always love each other. To me, movie like this can gives a child a sense of respect, love and care towards their siblings and other family members.


    This is a beautiful song, great movie and new princesses to Disney’s Princesses. I found foam sheets and now i am thinking to get bedsheets with Elsa and Anna printed on it for my daughter.

    Here is the song… ‘let it go’ lyrics and i you haven’t watched this movie, just spend your time to watch it with your kids. Enjoy!