• Friend,  Relationship,  Rewards,  usinku

    Appreciate Your Teachers

    Glad there are Facebook..now everybody wants to reconnect with their old friends, colleagues and next.. reunion.  Curious how they look like after 10 or 20 years.. where they are now, their families.. its interesting to find out how they choose their path, how those with academic just stay comfortable and those average grades are more successful.

    Sadly when comes to reunion.. the important people have been forgotten only talk about them but less appreciated.  Only the fierce or kind teachers  be remembered, their did their duty and responsibility but how they do it..affected how we feel or remember them.

    I would say its great to send flowers for teachers appreciation not only during the reunion or Teacher’s Day..but any day you want to show your appreciation to them.. that will make their day and a blessed day to you.


  • Children,  Health Concern,  NLP,  Relationship,  usinku

    The Invisible Ball

    I was upset with my daughter for misbehaving so i created a game for both of us.  A simple game, no need to use any paper, color, velcro tape or anything else just a plain game with lots of imagination.

    I call this game ‘The Invisible Ball’..  here how we play the game ;

    First, i stand face to face with my daughter and look at each other.. i asked her to relax

    Second, i ask her to imagine that we both holding a ball in our hand..

    Third, i told her i am a bit upset because she answer in a rude tone, for not listening.. each behavior or my emotions towards her i will put in the invisible ball…

    Whenever i say and put something in the invisible ball… the ball become bigger and bigger..and my hand will hold it carefully as if its heavy.  She will then do her part, surprisingly..she say..i don’t like the way you scold me..your voice too high..

    Then when we both ready.. we say.. now let us throw this anger with this ball.. ready (act as it is so heavy and you can see fire and feel the flame inside the ball)..  ready 1,2,3.. throw!..

    What do you think? it helps me and my daughter..probably this could help you too.