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Living In Reality..

We are living in reality… sometimes we  imagine too much… we get confuse.  We like to daydream, just like imagining, we  control what we wants, for our needs and feelings.  Nothing seems enough for us, what we cannot get in reality, we imagine… we created in our minds but sometimes it become reality.

We wanted more, in our personal development and career wise, we want to achieve a goal in our life.  But I am feeling bored lately, i have no interest in doing my work…don’t ask me why…, i don’t have any idea to write in my blog.. , i have not done any sketching/designing for so long, my hand and brain could not connect the ideas… i don’t want to give up.. i need something to get be back where it belong.

I need more than LCD HDTV , what i need is Self Actualization, that’s what Abraham Maslow said.

When all of the foregoing needs are satisfied, then and only then are the needs for self-actualization activated. Maslow describes self-actualization as a person’s need to be and do that which the person was “born to do.” “A musician must make music, an artist must paint, and a poet must write.” These needs make themselves felt in signs of restlessness. The person feels on edge, tense, lacking something, in short, restless. If a person is hungry, unsafe, not loved or accepted, or lacking self-esteem, it is very easy to know what the person is restless about. It is not always clear what a person wants when there is a need for self-actualization.

I guess i need to wake up, and seek what i wanted in life… in reality.. sometimes we have to stop pretending and follow our dream.


  • Shella

    To have a purpose in life is self-actualization. To be true to our own strong desire and grab the opportunity while we can… one is never to late.

  • Raymund

    I believe in our journey, We will come to a few crossroads in life.Some once and some more than that. As you stand at that junction you can decide either to take the right or the left road.Sometimes the roads seems beautifully path with flowers by the side and sometimes it is filled with holes, rough patches and uneven stones. We can never see what the end has to offer but a decision must be made.

    Some people fear to make that decision and stay put only to miss out so many beautiful things in life. “If I’d only taken the road….” Whether you take the right or the left it will bring you to 2 different destination. There is no right or wrong decision because your reality is shaped by your attitude in life.

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