• Business,  Friend,  Personal,  usinku

    Event Planner Or Do It Yourself!

    Other than dreaming of having my own boutique, i love to be an Event Planner, especially for birthday and wedding. Starting from budget, the venue, theme, dress, makeup.. wow interesting.. and stressful at the same time.. no doubt about it.. talk about make customer’s satisfaction.

    I have two wedding invitations this coming May.. i have promised my best friend to help her at his brother’s wedding, to put makeup for the flower girls.. ah easy weesy.. lol.. and the other invitation are from my colleague and have asked me to do her makeup.. but i have not agreed, i have not done bride makeup for a year.. i have no confident yet..need to practice my skills.

    My friend a.k.a the future bride are going to be busy planning and arranging for the ‘Big Day’.. to make it less stressful it would be easier to let the Event Planner do it but of course you need big budget on that.  On the other hand, if you have trusted friends or family, just delegate them with job and let them carry their duties, save cost.   I have just agreed to do gift box for 500pax..lol.. i know i will find somebody to help me.

    So if you are ready to get married and want to make it a real ..perfect ‘big day’.. hire a Wedding/Event Planner but if you love having friends and family to make a happy ..simple ‘big day’... do it yourself.

  • Children,  education,  Family,  Health Concern,  Holiday,  Personal,  usinku

    Having Fun Being A Mother

    Again.. i dont know what is happening.. i have been saving this post in my draft but all in a sudden when i open it today.. no content at all.. gone!  So i have to rethink and retype the whole story.. damm again.  But i decided not to rewrite the story i have been keeping as draft.. ‘expired’..lol.

    Its all about mother, mummy, mama, ina, bonda.. whatever we call her.. whatever we want our children to call us.. isnt that great having that title, its not as glamour as ‘Miss Universe’ or ‘Miss World’ but its just so wonderful.

    Being a mother can be stressful but fun at the same time, it is a big responsibility.. we are a mother, teacher, motivator, supervisor, chef, maid, nurse, driver .. you name it.. its all in a package of being a ‘mother’.  Once you enter motherhood, you cant turn back.. just have fun and enjoy it.

    What are the different between mummies back then and today? well.. almost the same but these days i believe we need to get more information about children, education and equip ourselves with modern technology.  Keep up with new information, don’t just follow what or how our mother treat us, be more than that, be a smart mother, study.. do research.. Those days, our mother can only ask opinion from their family, friends but know, we can get more just by surfing via internet.

    It is also important for us, mother to be near to God, pray with the family for guidance, protection and blessing.  Its a harsh world out there, everyday we worried about our children, their safety is our priority.   I admit that being a mother is not always fun, its stressful and tiring.. and i believe that given ‘Mother’s Day’ are not enough..  we need to search for a good travel deals and go for a holiday.  For a start, just go for a ‘mummy’s day out’ or ‘home alone’.. just have good rest, rejuvenate and get back your strength.  Stressful mother can do things beyond her ability, we don’t want that to happen.

    So mothers… Have Fun and Enjoy yourselves!!