BEAUTIZA

Welcome to BEAUTIZA!
It is interesting to have my own space of creativity. I am happy to share it with you.

I always wanted to be a fashion designer but things didnt go as plan. But i always love to design.. i even sketch during my free time. My busy lifetime as a working mum and wife didnt stop my passion of designing.

Well, who knows someday, i can be like ‘ISAAC’ .. the fashion designer.. who have his own talk show.  At the end of his show he will do sketches to his lucky audiences .. ‘clap for him’

Before i got married, i always judge the way my sister and other mother i know, treat their children. I always thought they are not doing the right thing, especially when they shout at their children. ‘What a Bad Mummy’.. i told to myself.. i am not going to treat my child like that.. i am going to be the ‘Good Mummy’

Well that was then.. .. Now when i have my own children.. my perception about ‘Good Mummy, Bad Mummy’ got mixed up.

I am not sure anymore whether i am being a ‘good mummy or bad mummy’. When my 5 years old son start his tantrum, i try to be a ‘good mummy’ which i thought so at that time. I try to talk to him nicely, hug him.. i try everything to make sure he stop… BUT.. when he continues.. and the tantrum got worsen.. ‘GOOD MUMMY.. beginning to change the colour.. .. . becoming the great Monster. To stop his tantrum.. i did pinch, shout.. oh my god.. i even spank him.

Is it bad to spank my son to make him stop his tantrum? Am i a Bad Mummy when shout at him? Do you have the same experience? Please share you knowledge on how to be a Good Mummy and not becoming the Bad Mummy.

I would love to always be the Good Mummy.. i love my son.. he is so adorable but you know .. kids will always be kids..